Ok guys - I'm feeling the vibe
Let me try and tackle this 'issue' another way by asking a question and maybe prompting some reflection.....(i.e. I don't need answers!)
When you lived in the UK as a UK national (if applicable!), how often did you go to 'immigrant' gatherings, events, social occasions, celebrations, quizzes, curry nights, dances, gardening clubs etc?
And, if you didn't - why not?
For me it's not about being newcomers - it's purely about behaviour.