A quickish response before work and things drag me away:
a) Builder refers to construction which is the trade of the person I was addressing and not as you 'appear' to be understanding it. The assumptions being made in blunt statements are clear for all to see. I cannot understand why you are saying what you are since you appear to be using your assumptions rather than knowledge. Challenging such things is not insulting. However, you are using precisely what you are criticising by veiling it in 'politeness'.
b) Catharine and James do not need to be preached at, because James has been ill, Catharine has been responding and has said exactly what the case is, what they set up and what they want. The majority of members do not complain. Your 'Catharine...just listen' is so patronising you should be very careful about using the word insult. Read back over the entire thread before slapping them down please.
c) Alexa is achieving what? The positions are out of how many sites? Several of their 'statistics' are completely wrong. Let us take education alone, where I come from, and how almost opposite the probable stat that is. Objectively, I would say it is almost oppositionally describing the reality of a largely educated membership. SFN is not collating such data, unless they are volunteered and many people provide little if any data.
d) I used 'faux statistics', I said only that I 'know' several hundred members to stress the point that the people responding here saying what is wrong are a small minority. I said '5-6%' to emphasise the point that I know a small minority and it is in turn a minority of those people here. Catharine called them a 'vociferous minority', I agreed with what she was saying. The use of a percentage is not as a statistic per se. Having had very much more training than I would have wished myself in quantitative and qualitative methods, using both in my professional life very, very often I understand stats. I use them when I use stats, but not as a single percentage as an example.
e) I am a social scientist, have worked on computer systems as a user for about 40 years since they were a vast room rather than something on my desk. I have 'worked' in pushing 80 countries. So what? What has yours or mine got to do with SFN? Yes I am ubiquitous, indeed if you read the chain you would see that for health reasons I could mainly not work for a year and so was on here a lot. I am also not try to be scientific but human. Your accusation of 'unsubstantiated chatter' is back to insulting, how do you know what I know and why I respond as I do? I am neither afraid to debate, very hard sometimes, but still have sense of humour.
So, you had your say, I am having mine. It is opinion one on one. I think you are putting Catharine and James down for their choices which does not make you right. However, bottom line is that I, not somebody else but simply me, find you patronising and insulting.
Now I must work...