Right.
Yes, Norman, I too understand that women are attracted to men of a bigger stature. And I can see the logic in this.
Are women in reality attracted to 'taller' men (note I don't say 'bigger') and I would, if I'm being honest, say, yes.
However, I think this has a lot to do with the fact that they simply stand out - literally head and shoulders sometimes, above other men. More so, than a heavier man who is quite tall. You notice them.
(I've actually thought about this quite a lot before!)
But, it can happen in other scenarios - and I think this makes my point quite well. My ex was 6 foot 3. And when he was younger he was forever getting picked up by the police at football matches, this is in the days when there was usually trouble, for doing absolutely nothing at all. And he said it was because they noticed him. Now I don't think most policeman are looking for a mate at football matches, so we can presume he was at least someway correct.
Now, on the other hand, we have the 'larger' gentleman. Wider. Now, my take on this, because I am not, USUALLY, attracted to the larger gentleman (and I have had several who were friends who I liked) I think because, rightly or wrongly, due to them being overweight I perceive them as being a little on the lazy side. I don't mean that they never shift from the sofa, but I mean that, given the option they will watch tv rather than go into the garden or do something interesting. And, I personally, don't like sitting watching tv. So I generally consider them unsuitable as potential partners.
So now we are onto the chaps of more diminished stature - and my dad was one of them.
This depends on the physique that goes with the stature. I once had a blind date with a guy who was really, really nice and intelligent - a really nice bloke. And he was not tall. But he was weedy with it. And I couldn't help but keep thinking that pushing my lawnmower would probably put him in hospital. Again, you see, it's the whole life-style thing and matching up.
But I know of other gentlemen below average height, who I think, 'Hmm. Nice little mover.' Think of all the blokes who are considered to be on the small side. Sammy Davis Junior - nobody would ever consider that man to be 'typically' attractive - but he was! Robert Downey Jr is only 5ft 8in - Iron Man. Tom Cruise 5ft 7in. Davy Jones (Monkees) 5ft 4in. Daniel Radcliffe (Harry Potter) 5ft 5in. Need I go on?
So, the tall guy, who looks physically fit will initially attract more attention. His physique is just as important (fit looking) because it gives the impression he can 'compete' that he is 'organised' that he has some measure of 'self discipline'(whether he can or not is a different matter) Look at how many UK politicians look fine when going in to an election. And if they get in they turn into flaccid lumps of lard with wide necks. Blair did it. Cameron is doing it. Brown just can't stick to the diet.
So, I do think you need to look a little outside the box and past initial impressions. Personally, I tend to be more attracted to the smaller, less heavy man - even though my ex was tall (but you just get a crick in your neck looking up all the time)
Anyway, food for thought - and yes, some shorter men can appear very aggressive and I do think it's a case of attack being the best form of defence.