I think I understood what you said without the clarification. And still disagree with the point you seem to be making. Maybe it is I not explaining myself well enough.
In a country we accept that out neighbours usually via representatives such as MPs to decide what we can do in public and within our own homes.
That is the same in the EU. In order to be part of it we obey the rules set by the majority.
You seem to be saying that it is good we left the EU because we no longer have to do that? We can now have autonomy?
Indeed, if your argument is valid, since we (the UK) are out we can do whatever we wish.
I am saying that is not so. We are not a totally free country so long as we function in the world, so long as we trade. Unless we wish to be more isolated than N Korea or a 1970 Albania, we must conform to some or all the rules agreed with those we interact with.
The EU is our nearest and biggest trading block. It was when we were members and remains so.
Trade deals, in the real world we need “to obey” the rules of that deal.
Sometimes it is about product safety: we need our cars to conform to US emissions standards to keep that market. No issue there. We also may need to accept their foods here. More problematic. And if we were to allow GM food into the chain here, wouldn’t that affect how we can sell foods to the EU? A can of worms.
The UK is an island, but is not a self sufficient one in any sense of the word. We need trade, and we are far better off being fully inside the decision making process of our biggest trade partner. We are better as a large and important partner in the EU, not a minor player to the US or whatever, and not a far flung neighbour of TPP etc.
Independence is a nice idea, but it is not a realistic one. We are not independent in our homes so long as we need electricity, or to buy food, or need medical help etc, nor are we as a country independent.
Edit to add: re having laws imposed on the UK by the EU, if I didn’t mention it before I will now: the UK lost against the majority of the EU 2% of the time: that is we voted one way when the majority voted the other. By being part of the EU, we no longer even get to chage or influence the scope or degree of laws made by them, and since they are and will remain our biggest partners, we still do need to obey those rules.
Edit to add 2.. Couple of links EU facts behind the claims: UK influence – Full Fact
This site pulls together ONS and other sources in a very accessible way. UK trade - Brexit FactBase