Yesterday whilst on FB, I had my mother’s handyman pop up as a suggested friend.
The only way that FB could have made a connection is by searching my Google contacts.
The worry is what else is FB looking at?
As I said earlier, if they can, they will harvest data from you’re phone book, call records and more as well. I only know about Android, but this sort of harvesting can only be done with explicit permission, but then most people just click ‘yes’ if it asks a question without thinking, or even reading the question in a lot of cases.
If you want FB to not do this, then you need to be careful what you click. You can also disable these permissions after the fact, but by then it’s almost certainly too late. Some apps, I know will constantly nag you to enable certain permissions and I’m sure FB will do this. If you look at the T&Cs for the free tier, you may even find that this is mandatory.
Edit: I don’t think an app can override asking the user for permission for certain things, but if it’s possible, I’m sure FB would have figured out how to do it. I think you can add several permissions together into a single request, which may be how it’s done.
They’re far more clever than that, using things like proximity, frequenting the same places, friends of friends, in the same Facebook groups and much much more.
Whatsapp requires you to have a smartphone. Does Signal? I was looking at Viber the other day and, while it will work on a desktop, it, like Whatsapp, requires initial installation on a smartphone, as I understand it.
I’ve just had a brilliant idea that no one can hack or steal the info. I found a pen and some paper and eventually remembered how to write (not very legibly TBH🙄). Apparently they are called letters and can be sent by post.
History shows us that sending letters in the post has definitely never been hacked. No one’s ever intercepted a piece of paper travelling by road, rail air or sea on its journey between two parties…
When FB bought it they promised not to share numbers / contacts etc between the platforms. That lasted all of 18 months. As soon as they bought it I got Telegram and Signal instead.