David wrote:
“if you find a very good place is there a limit you are allowed to stay? If so, I can see the only drawback would be if you found a really nice spot and made friends.”
This might sound sanctimonious, however, my answer is that quite the opposite has happened.
There’s almost a tribal link between members of the livaboard, or long seasonable use boating world here in France. Possibly because there’s relatively few of us, we are in general a group species, so when meeting new like-minded folk we talk boats, experiences, trials and tribulations etc. wine and beer are generally involved
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Possibly it’s self protection, as if something bad happens on the water the first (often only) people to help are other boaters.
Whatever the reason, pulling up to a mooring often means another boater plodding towards you to take a rope from you, the ice is instantly broken.
We have used the same winter mooring since 2008, there are and have been folk from Australia,NZ, America, Canada, Germany, Switzerland, UK and possibly another ½ dozen other places who have become friends.
Through the cold months social life is very much like anywhere else, a lunch here and there, dinner parties, lots of “dropping in for a coffee”.
Around April and October we have a mooring BBQ, it’s like the U.N.
50ish people speaking French, English Swiss Dialect German, High German, chatting, laughing, strumming guitars.
The population changes a little each year, but we keep in touch with folk all over the world, on our UK trips we see friends we have made on the water.
We visited Switzerland a few years ago, a Swiss couple later asked us "have we done something that you don’t like, we heard you were in Switzerland and didn’t come and visit us "
. We had to promise we would visit next time, arriving at their house we were shown to our bedroom, as sign was above the door “Paul und Maralyn”.
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It’s not a life for everyone, but we love it.