Like Stella I am a nomad. Army life, constantly moving and then, like Vero, away at school. There were occasions when I came home from school to find that home was in a different house or even a different locality from where I lived before leaving for school.
The nomadic life has continued ever since. I moved home in London 13 times in 25 years. I’m coming up for 3 years in FR after 5 years in ES.
Because my father happened to be posted in Catterick Camp when I was born doesn’t mean that Catterick Camp is where I’m from. We moved house three times before I was 10 months old!
I was 4 y.o. in 1953 on the ship to my father’s posting in SIngapore. Apart from a few weeks in UK before his next posting to BAOR, we didn’t get back to UK to live until I was 15.
My father’s father had died while we were in Singapore. We only paid very rare visits to his step-mother [“the old witch”] when we visited UK so the paternal ‘roots’ were non-existant. My father had, himself, been thrown out of the house and into the Army at age 14, spent some of the pre-WW2 years in China and then India, the Far East and Iraq 1940 - 1948.
My mother, born in Wolverhampton, ‘divorced’ her family at age 17 in 1937. She somehow enrolled and did her basic nurse’s training in the hospital in Kendal, Westmoreland, where she was effectively ‘adopted’ by the family of a local girl also training at the hospital.
From that time on my mother referred to Kendal as her home and this family as her parents. I knew they were not: to me they were Uncle Harry and Auntie Annie but the gap between fact and fiction didn’t register with me as bizarre.
As soon as she was qualified, in 1940, she joined the Q.A.s and spent her time 1940-1948 in India and the Far East. A prime opportunity to ‘disappear’.
She met my father on the troop ship bringing British personnel back to UK.
So roots on my father’s side were very sketchy and on my mother’s side non-existant. When people ask me where I’m from I say London. I went to college there after boarding school and then made it my home for 25 years, with a good deal of travel far and wide. I love living in hotels …