Can I ask you please Veronique why you took it personally ? Did I cite your name ? I don't target anybody ! I just speak from my own point of view, and even when I say "american" , "anglo-saxon" or whatever, I am not targeting. I am just speaking in a general way. Now each case is different. What should be interesting indeed, is where you come from, what is your country policy, why you are in france, if you speak french and interact with french people, government, education, business system and incorporation, all these things are important in my view to be able to juge a country. I see that you lived in many countries, I didn't. Did you have the opportunity to go on your own, look for a job, rent an apartment on your own, were you married, how old were you then, all these criterias, in my opinion, count to be able to make an objective jugement. I know some people who went to NY for 1 month, and they know America. I am not saying that you are the same, but I am saying that you have to compare apples to apples.
As a french native, when I came back to France, I staid in a hotel for a year because nobody wanted to rent me an apartment, although I showed references from my american bank. That was not enough for the french. In america, they just see if you are a good payer, on their gigantic computer, and they don't care how you get your money. It's not their business. That I think is called" respect of your privacy". But not in France. They want to know what is inside your shirt ? And for me who is a free spirit, that is freedom, liberty. In america, as long as you pay your debt, they respect you and give you what you need. Discrimination is a crime so when you go to look for an apartment, one fact counts: that you are the first one and that your credit is good. NOT TRUE IN FRANCE.
So, believe me I am not putting any jugement on you. I don't know you and in fact I received so many negative and hateful answers that I finally decided to write only one note for everybody. But that doesn't surprise me: we are in a "socialistic era" and in a " politically correct" era. So anybody like me who wants freedom - ie. capitalism - is rejected and hated. Capitalism is not money: look at the socialist government in france; there are no richer !
A last thing: In france if you are less than 45 years old you might have your choice. After that you are considered as a "senior". A friend of mine who is a manager in an "HLM" company - in fact there are so many building that belong to the government here you wonder" and she said she has received a note saying that over 45 years old, you are entitle to some benefit because you are considered a "senior". Think about that !