I am an avid ‘keeper in touch’ with friends, but am starting to wonder if spending so much time on my own is not overloading my friends.
There aren’t that many BUT I do recognise they are all different, however I suspect I am in touch too often, as replies are much slower these days.
I understand that people have their own lives, so am wondering if more than say a maximum of once a month is too much or too little?
The is also the nagging doubt over if I don’t make the contact that’s usually the end of it!
I really don’t want to invade their space, but think that is exactly what I might be doing. As I don’t have family I don’t want to lose the friends I have (or hope I have!)
What do YOU think is a reasonable level of contact?